How do you face your fears?
I wish I had the answer.
As a man we have to face our fears and above all in this game face uncertainty. We have to become comfortable with uncertainty and going with our instincts. I believe that this is a core, fundamental value to every man. Until you do this, I believe that you will still be a child in a man’s body.
This takes a strong will and a dedicated individual. I do not believe that this is easy. It is what separates us, the spectators and the people who take action, the leaders and the followers. There is an old saying that the people who know how always work for the people that know why. I believe that in this game everything rests on why because if you’re reading this you already know how. It just comes down to the question: “I am man enough?”
I think that really boils down to why.
This is purely an inner game topic. This is the point where you know why you deserve that “perfect 10″: Because she is your kind of girl, because you’re a high quality guy, etc. You have the reasons in your mind. Not just in your mind, you really really know why you deserve her and you fully give yourself permission to deserve her. I think that comes down to following your path and if you are always pursuing your dreams 100%, then you’ll have it all.
This is my current thought because right now I’m going after my dreams, but in truth only partly. I probably spend 30% of my time going after it. I believe I need to make a fundamental change to push even harder because right now my brain believes that I’ll get there one day, but I want to be there sooner. I want to stop half-assing it. Keep in mind that it is a journey, not just an end goal. I am now mindset where if you are truly pursuing your dreams, then it will come. I believe though that I need to give it 100% of my effort when I am spending time doing it.
Take the steps. For me, I know what they are in my head. I just have to follow-through relentlessly as much as I can, every day, until it clicks that I am that kind of person. This is all about changing yourself and how you act. We all must face our demons and I believe this is the hardest thing we can ever do on this planet. But to face our fears will mold us into the men we want to be.
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