At the end of 2008 I came to a realization for myself. I don’t want to put so much effort into the actual pickup. Going out to a bar and chatting up complete strangers can be very difficult. Don’t get me wrong I like it and I will continue to do it, but I want to add a new facet to my game.
The thing that is so difficult about the cold approach is that each group and each new person you talked to is cold. They don’t know you and your value starts at zero. What this means is that every person that you talk to you, you must build your value up from zero and then start all over again with the next person.
This is fine and great for practice and I want to continue to practice this way, but I want to develop a life style that can complement my game and give me passive game. That way I don’t have to work hard all the time. I want something that will work for me.
I came to this realization fully in December. For a long time I felt that I was doing too much work and I couldn’t exactly put my finger on it, but after having a few parties that I organized I really began to see the difference of having value yourself verses talking about it. We had parties filled with just girls. Some that we had met in invited and others that had just heard about us and came.
This is where I really started to realize the true potential for passive game. It was our last party. I had girls coming up to me they had heard about me and wanted to get to know me. I didn’t have to open anyone or try to build value for myself. My attraction was fully taken care of.
All I needed to do was handle the logistics.
It was too easy I could not screw up. Sure I want to get really good at the cold approach for fun as a hobby but I want to create a lifestyle that feeds me hot women as well. Why not do it the simple way and still get the results.
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It’s important that we develop that balance of being able to have active and passive game, depending on what you feel like doing. That’s why developing a great social lifestyle will help your passive game. Plus, you’ll end up having a better time, having to do less work. Even though, developing a social lifestyle of high value requires a lot of work, the rewards last a longer time and are more beneficial then having active game, in some respects.
I found a great book on entourage game at http://www.entouragegame.com I find it explains a lot of the stuff legend talks about. I highly recommend it
I found a great book on entourage game at http://www.entouragegame.com I find it explains a lot of the stuff legend talks about. I highly recommend it
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