This brings us back to over arching goals and step by step goals. All very important to keep motivation.
Lets look at my current pickup goals.
Over arching goals:
Open sets. Done check got there and lost my motivation.
Thus I created a new goal to get the bartenders. Working on it and at the same time creating myself an over arching goal of becoming famous. Not in a commercial sense but becoming famous to everyone I meet and backing it up. Actually doing it. This will instill a super solid sense of entitlement and inner game. See my entourage game post for details of the step by step. I listed out what I need to do and each on of those goals can be broken down even more extensively.
Lets set this up for everyone:
Over arching goal: Get good at pickup
This can be broken down:
Get good at Approaching and Vibing.
Step by step goals:
Learn to open: Get an opener or just say hi.
Learn to hook: Learn to tease or cold read open loops and comment
Learn to vibe: No idea but two months ago I couldn’t and now after forcing myself to just sit there in set and talk now its easy if you can do this you can get numbers no problem.
I am going to continue this post with a part three of my current specific step by step goals for the weekend.
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