The latest craze in pickup has been the whole idea of “bring the value”. Before it seemed that many of the tactics and techniques revolved around taking value. More than that it was really the mindset of how you came into interaction. The mindset behind the tactics, not the tactics themselves. If you wanted to just go up to talk to a girl and react to her, fishing for that feeling of validation, then you are taking value.
The community shifted thinking that you should bring value instead. Every person that you talk to, you should make their day better by bringing value to the interaction. Simply because you want to. I think it’s great to bring value. It is an important concept and a great way to game but I believe that there is a third way.
The third way and what I believe to be the future is to become the value. This is more of a passive form of game. Think entourage game. Becoming the value is where I want to take my game. This is where I will have attraction already handled before I even talked to the girl.
Where I don’t need fancy lines or a fancy routine stack. I don’t need to talk about value, I am the value.
Sure I think that I will talk about value once I become value, but I think it’s a much better starting point.
I’m not really sure exactly how to do this, but it falls into my creating a lifestyle and entourage game. I will make it my goal and look into it and blog about it more as it arises.
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