How To Have Phone Sex Tips (and Dirty Talk) from David Wygant

by Edge

in Flirting

Knowing how to talk dirty to a girl is definitely a skill you want to have.

There was a time, years ago where I was dating this tall brunette girl who I was way more into than she was into me.  But we were dating and I was happy to have her at the time.

We were hanging out and I was casually talking about something sexual when she said, “OK, you’re really getting me turned on.”

So I was thinking, “Awesome…  I’m going to talk dirty to this girl, she’ll get turned on and we’ll hook up.”  My mind is racing… remembering bits and pieces… fragments of dirty talk or dirty things I’ve heard in the past.

And then I made an attempt that was so awkward and retarded that I believe she had to leave the room in embarrassment.  Seriously – I didn’t just wreck the moment… I dropped a nuclear bomb on the moment.

Needless to say, we did not end up hooking up and I suffered a combination of horniness, disappointment and embarrassment.  I believe they call it dishornassment.

So yeah, one of many stories of my dishornassing trial and error period.  If I had known how to talk dirty to my girl at that moment, things would have gone very differently.

On a relevant but unrelated note, I had the pleasure of meeting David Wygant when I was out in Los Angeles this February.  David Wygant is one of the most experienced and well-known dating coaches out there (the movie Hitch was based on David).  Plus he’s a really great, normal, down-to-earth guy that’s easy to relate to.

David mentioned in March that he was going to release a phone sex product and I knew it would be mind-blowing.  Back when radio was a little looser, radio hosts would have David on and have female listeners call in and get seduced in real-time.  David has seduction down to such a science that he would predictively have the woman moaning with orgasmic pleasure within 15 minutes on the phone.

Hardcore.  I give the man props.

So now that it’s the end of May and I have been meaning to do this for the past month, I decided to finally post up how awesome David’s phone sex course is.

What I found shocking about the program is that David isn’t giving a bunch of suggestions and theories – he actually has you listen in on him using his phone sex system on live calls with real women, then he breaks down the call in a play-by-play format.  He also provides play-by-play IM conversation so you can see how he seduces women on the internet to build extremely rapid sexual attraction.

Now truth be told, I was lucky enough to have learned the art of “talking dirty” or “phone sex” after my tragic first attempt, but listening to David’s delivery and style took my understanding to another level.  I am always happy to learn more and David’s course definitely has something to offer everyone, from complete novice to very experienced.

Definitely worth your time to check out here.

{ 3 comments }

Devon Brown June 1, 2011 at 3:04 pm

While I do not know David Wygant, nor have I heard his course. However, from the description here, I have to say this – This form of training normally trains you to do something EXACTLY the way it is presented. To that end, it sounds like this course would train you to verbally seduce women exactly like David Wygant. And any time you are not yourself with a woman, it is a recipe for disaster. At least that is my opinion.

- Devon

Edge June 1, 2011 at 3:24 pm

@Devon – Really? It wasn’t my intent to give that impression.

David goes through what things he’s taking into consideration and the contexts he holds in order to have successful sexual exchanges with women via phone or internet.

Now, if I was a newbie and just imitated David’s examples right out of the box, I would success with my imitation of his approach. But for the guy who doesn’t want to take on someone else’s personality (I never wanted to), David provides all of the building blocks to have your own successful style to fit your personality and preferences.

It’s good stuff – there’s lots and lots of courses out there, but when I come across a good one I’m happy to recommend it. David is a very real and down-to-earth guy and in a “community” where there’s lots of guys of varying expertise and and compassion, I’d much rather see guys going to David than some human-horror-story claiming to be a pickup guru.

I know that you check out a lot of different relationship blogs and your comments are always thoughtful and considerate. I think you’d like David’s approach.

IS from www.howcanigetgirls.com July 16, 2011 at 8:08 pm

Hye nice work with this post let me give you my opinion about talk dirty on phone.

One of things you must first know, is what do you want with this girl?
do you wanna just masterbate by phone? want a date? wanna make her your gf? What do you really want with her?

Because the kind of aproaching to SEXUALIZATION, in a phone talk, in my opinion must to be different.

One of things i do, is teach her a way to get a deep sexual connection with herself, and teach her how to anchor that (using PNL techniques), so she can use whenever she wants.

Girls love guys teaching them anything. So why not teaching her get better pleasure?

Tell her close her eyes, take a deep breath and just follow your voice, and start slow…dont talk dirty at first, make her imagine a nice sensual oiling massage, and let her enjoy it with your voice, make your voice deep like whispering inside her.
Turn her on, and then turn her horny, in that state of mind, when she feel really horny, there is when you can personalize with you…and going slowly up to talk really dirty.

Remeber girls love sex, and love pleasure….with guys who knows the timing and how make her feel like a sexual being.

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