Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 20 Part B
Attraction switches
When we talk about attraction switches we are getting very technical but if you really want to get into pick-up as a hobby and want to get advanced then I think its important to look at them. The purpose of attraction switches is to use them to your advantage by demonstrating them to the girl your interested in. This can be done by literally demonstrating them or embedding them into your stories. Anything that you can demonstrate in real time will be much more believable and powerful compared to embedding them into stories.
There are many different switches and traits that make a man attractive. We could debate specifics all day but I think these are the major important ones:
Leader of men
Being the leader of other men is a hugely attractive trait. This can be embedded through story telling and demonstrated by how people react to you. Think of the old community idea of being the alpha man. Being the center of attention would also fall into this category as well as being able to hold court. Lead the men and the women will follow.
Protector of loved ones
This attraction switch would mostly have to be embedded but it is extremely powerful when demonstrated too. Many girls want a strong man to take care of them and stand up for them at times weather they will admit it or not. If you ever protect a girl when some guy is getting violent with her she will never forget it. Being the protector carries a powerful effect. Use it wisely.
Pre-selction
Pre-selection is scientifically proven. Women want what other women have. This switch can be embedden through story telling and it can easily be demonstrated. If you have women with you or if you can actively get women to give you IOI’s and have your target see it happen then she will become more attractive. Social proof through pre-selection is extremely powerful.
The willingness to walk away
Demonstrating that you are non – needy and that you have options is very powerful. Everyone wants what they can’t have. You must be willing to lose the girl to get the girl. If you can demonstrate in front of the target that other girls want you and that you will walk if she doesn’t live up to your standards then she will become more attracted.
Being socially intelligent is a necessity. This is something that you will demonstrate in front of the girls you talk to. Social intelligence would include humor and just being aware of whats going on. This is a skill you will learn through practice. The more you interact with people the better you will get.
The willingness to emote
When talking about the willingness to emote Mystery talks about that it really means to show that you have healthy emotions. Putting it in simple terms, showing that you are not crazy and your brain works right. Showing that you care and that your brain functions normally.
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