Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 20 Part A
What is attraction?
Think about what attraction really is. We are all trying to create attraction in other people but how many of us have actually taken the time to really figure out what attraction is. Is it a feeling? Is it value?
For me I think attraction as investment. The more we invest ourselves into something the more we want it. It can almost be desperation. Think about your last long relationship at first it was great and slowly it may have gotten worse. The longer you were in the relationship the more committed you felt. You spent so much time and energy in the relationship that even when things were bad you didn’t want to walk away because you had invested so much time into it.
Think about it a different way. Have you ever won a scratch ticket or been given a bunch of money. Say you won $500 dollars in a raffle. Would you blow it on something expensive like a new TV or a night on the town. Sure many of us would but at the same time every week maybe you earn $500 dollars working 40 hours a week and you don’t blow it. You had to work hard for it. You invested your time into making that money and then you feel invested and don’t want to spend it as frivolously.
I think of attraction the same way. The more you make someone invest into an interaction, the more they invest their energy and time into you the more ‘attracted’ they become. The more invested they become and the more pull you have.
Attractive characteristics
Humor
Social intelligence
Being Dominate
***FUN***
There are many more but I think these are the most important and its better to be really good at one then mediocre at a lot.
Assuming Attraction
Many PUA’s worry about IOI’s and if a girl likes them or not. I really believe that you should just assume attraction and push forward unless its not working. Then you can look at what your doing and modify it accordingly. The belief that she is attracted and its always on, even if its wrong, will help us get results much faster and more often.
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I did this (assume attraction) unconsciously but now that i read this i realize that is a powerfull thing ’cause I created like a vibe that the girls felt and feel and automatically felt and feel real attraction.
Being dominant or leading is so important too, we men have to ALWAYS take the chooises of what to do, what to go, what to eat, whatever.
So good.
Plug & Play
I did this (assume attraction) unconsciously but now that i read this i realize that is a powerfull thing ’cause I created like a vibe that the girls felt and feel and automatically felt and feel real attraction.
Being dominant or leading is so important too, we men have to ALWAYS take the chooises of what to do, what to go, what to eat, whatever.
So good.
Plug & Play
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