Getting Started in Pick-Up Guide – Part 14: Touching, Kino Escalation Part A
Posted by Legend in Technique, tags: getting physical, Getting started in game guide, Kino, Kino Escalation, Touch
Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 14: Touching and Kino Part A
Legend:
When to touch
The sooner you start touching the better. When you open sets touch them lightly with the back of your hand. Keep it light and don’t escalate hard in front of her friends until you have won them over.
Edge:
When it comes to kino or touching, I think that the method has a lot to do with the man himself. It’s been said (and I agree) that if a guy is very masculine / manly-looking naturally and naturally appears dominate, he should not touch until she touches him. If the guy is skinny or has a more gentle, kind or effeminate face, he should touch as soon as possible.
Speaking from personal experience, I had a very young looking face through my early twenties. Plus, I was very skinny. Back then, I could touch a woman early in the interaction and it was fine. I noticed that after I started working out, putting on muscle and just generally maturing in my facial structure, my previously well-received early touching came across to the woman differently – this time as overly agressive. The only thing that had changed about me was my appearance really. My intent and demeanor was still the same.
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- Getting Started in Pick-Up Guide – Part 14: Kino Escalation (Ladder) Part B
- Getting Started in Pick-Up Guide – Part 24: Push Pull
- Getting Started in Pick-Up Guide – Part 29: Dealing With Last Minute Resistance Part B
- Getting Started in Pick-Up Guide – Part 25: Rapport, Comfort and Connection
- Ratisse – Sexual Escalation Part 4
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I loved this post. You are right on with the touching, when a gentler looking guy touched me I never felt uncomfortable with it, but when a stronger looking guy touched me too soon, it did feel almost as he was coming on too strong. So my shield went up very fast. Love how you are helping guys out with this info. Making it better for us girls. I applaud you! =)
I loved this post. You are right on with the touching, when a gentler looking guy touched me I never felt uncomfortable with it, but when a stronger looking guy touched me too soon, it did feel almost as he was coming on too strong. So my shield went up very fast. Love how you are helping guys out with this info. Making it better for us girls. I applaud you! =)
She’s right, you know. It’s very important to build not only comfort with your touch but also make sure you can AROUSE her with it!
She’s right, you know. It’s very important to build not only comfort with your touch but also make sure you can AROUSE her with it!
Absolutely… sometimes I think men are insensitive to a woman’s fear of being dominated. Not saying some don’t like that but only on their terms. No woman wants to feel like she can’t get out of the situation at hand. If she feels comfortable with you touching her and she likes it you will get farther. Don’t push if you feel her resisting and make sure you escalate if she doesn’t resist. It’s true… you must be one with the PUA in you
Absolutely… sometimes I think men are insensitive to a woman’s fear of being dominated. Not saying some don’t like that but only on their terms. No woman wants to feel like she can’t get out of the situation at hand. If she feels comfortable with you touching her and she likes it you will get farther. Don’t push if you feel her resisting and make sure you escalate if she doesn’t resist. It’s true… you must be one with the PUA in you
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Hmm…interesting…when I was skinnier and more muscular I noticed that the girls were more threatened by me. Now I’m pudgy as hell and very snugable and can kino a lot easier…
I think the name of the game is kino escalation. That’s the difference between a friend and a lover is how they touch one another. Establishing touch early on is CRUCIAL to your success.
Start out with different handshakes, games involving touching, and move up. It’s something you gotta grow comfortable with. I still catch myself thinking…”Yeah I should touch her now.”
Hmm…interesting…when I was skinnier and more muscular I noticed that the girls were more threatened by me. Now I’m pudgy as hell and very snugable and can kino a lot easier…
I think the name of the game is kino escalation. That’s the difference between a friend and a lover is how they touch one another. Establishing touch early on is CRUCIAL to your success.
Start out with different handshakes, games involving touching, and move up. It’s something you gotta grow comfortable with. I still catch myself thinking…”Yeah I should touch her now.”
I haven’t thought about this before, a very interesting concept that I’ll have to do more looking into. I know that a taller, bigger man looks more threatening so it makes sense that his touching won’t be as well received as a less threatening-looking man. But I guess I never thought about it as having that great of a practical impact on the way men learn to operate in sets.
Touch is such a powerful tool, men (and women) who don’t use it are cutting themselves off from a greater level of interaction. I noticed that my boyfriend and I often use touch more than words to communicate – nudging, pushing, pulling, stroking, in our regular interactions. To steer me where we’re going he often places a hand on the back of my neck and leads me instead of verbally beckoning me somewhere. Not only is it just a plain effective way of communication that can sometimes describe what we want or feel better than words, but it makes me feel closer to him physically in some way. Anyone can talk to each other. Being able to understand each other’s thoughts, emotions, and desires through touch is like communicating on a different level.
I haven’t thought about this before, a very interesting concept that I’ll have to do more looking into. I know that a taller, bigger man looks more threatening so it makes sense that his touching won’t be as well received as a less threatening-looking man. But I guess I never thought about it as having that great of a practical impact on the way men learn to operate in sets.
Touch is such a powerful tool, men (and women) who don’t use it are cutting themselves off from a greater level of interaction. I noticed that my boyfriend and I often use touch more than words to communicate – nudging, pushing, pulling, stroking, in our regular interactions. To steer me where we’re going he often places a hand on the back of my neck and leads me instead of verbally beckoning me somewhere. Not only is it just a plain effective way of communication that can sometimes describe what we want or feel better than words, but it makes me feel closer to him physically in some way. Anyone can talk to each other. Being able to understand each other’s thoughts, emotions, and desires through touch is like communicating on a different level.
Thanks for the comments guys.
Bolo – I agree with you. Kino escalation is the name of the game. We need to start it soon and build momentum to get the best results.
Oribi – I have found that I can be way more aggressive and touch more aggressively then Edge. I think becuase I am a lot smaller and I look a lot younger. Its a balance but I think the persons size plays a huge role.
Thanks for the comments guys.
Bolo – I agree with you. Kino escalation is the name of the game. We need to start it soon and build momentum to get the best results.
Oribi – I have found that I can be way more aggressive and touch more aggressively then Edge. I think becuase I am a lot smaller and I look a lot younger. Its a balance but I think the persons size plays a huge role.