Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 12: Phone Game, TXT game, and what to do on the phone.
Legend:
TXT message Game
My text message game really consists of sending a simple text of “do you speak text?” then I will usually say something funny connecting what we talked about the night before and move on to the phone.
Edge:
When it comes to texts, I keep it simple, light and funny. I’ll usually call her some nickname and be a little playful, referencing something I talked to her earlier. It’s a great way to build up a one-on-one bond with you… even if it is just by texting over a phone, she’s still focusing entirely on your banter and that further bonds her to you.
Legend:
Phone game and talking on the phone
The phone is a great comfort building location. Really want to just get on there and get comfortable talking to each other like you’re just old friends. Once you’ve established that it’s okay to call each other then it’s much easier to meet up and continue to talk to each other.
Edge:
When it comes to phone game, I usually do a few things. First, typically before I call them I will have already talked to them for a while and had some kind of banter. I will probably have gotten a sense of her sense of humor and maybe even come up with a nickname for her. When I make the call, I touch on those themes again to kind of re-enliven the feelings she had when she was talking to me originally. Then, once the conversation is at a high note, I will quickly say, “Hey, I gotta go <for whatever reason>. Any big plans tomorrow?” or whenever I want to plan the date… Then I’ll just say that we’re going to go somewhere and do something and it will be an adventure… sometimes I’m vague, sometimes I’m straight-up. And nearly all the time it’s something I would have done anyway – I can’t tell you how many times I’ve brought a first-date to the supermarket.
All in all though, the quality of your phone conversations will only be as good as the conversations you had with her prior to getting her on there… You have a little more flexibility if your phone call is the first time she’s ever heard your voice (like if you meet a girl on the internet), but generally speaking you want your focus to be on building up good feelings before the phone call. There is no phone game that is going to save you if everything leading up to the phone call sucked.
To break it down simply, it’s: 1) call her, 2) get her laughing or enjoying the talk, 3) make the date, 4) get off the phone
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