Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 12: Phone Game, When to call Part A
Legend:
How to use the phone number
My perspective on using the phone number is to text her that same night or immediately the next day. I like to throw a few texts back and forth and then transition to the phone as soon as possible. I can’t tell you how many numbers have staled out on me just because of not transitioning to talking on the phone quickly. We all feel accomplished because we got the phone number, but it can come at a price. Now that the feeling of accomplishment is there, it can actually prevent us from calling to prevent us from possibly losing that feeling of validation by the fact that now she might not pick up. In reality a guy could’ve had a perfect cold approach and she just doesn’t pick up for some unknown reason. You have to get in the mindset that some things are just out of your control and just because it’s not working on the phone doesn’t mean you didn’t do a good job before. This is a very difficult barrier to push through, but phone numbers just mean they want to talk to you – use them as quickly as possible to get the two of you back meeting in real life.
Edge:
I think a lot of guys get carried away in worrying about phone rules and whatnot. I have had a lot of success calling the girl when I feel like it because I don’t put a ton of stock on it either way. It doesn’t really matter to me all that much if I don’t get this particular girl, this particular time. So for anyone concerned about the 3 day rule or how long to wait before you call a woman you met, I would just say put your focus on lightening up and not caring so much about results. Caring too much about how something might turn out is a sure-fire way to lose…
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Good post. There actually is no need follow the 3 day rule, as long as you are not needy and call 10 times a day.
And also, from some experiences I’ve had, just because she doesn’t pick up the first couple of times, doesn’t mean the number is a flake. Sending out random text pings to several girls at the same time can reap some fun rewards
Btw, great blog guys.
Good post. There actually is no need follow the 3 day rule, as long as you are not needy and call 10 times a day.
And also, from some experiences I’ve had, just because she doesn’t pick up the first couple of times, doesn’t mean the number is a flake. Sending out random text pings to several girls at the same time can reap some fun rewards
Btw, great blog guys.