Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 10: Creating Rapport, Deep comfort,Wide Rapport, and Connection Part B
Legend:
In the seduction community, there are two types of rapport:
Wide rapport
Would consist of talking about any number of subjects and keeping it light / surface-level as you talk about a ton of things. You talk about your job, talk about her job, her about pets, talk about what you like to do for fun… really anything. The principle behind wide rapport is that you both get to know a little bit about everything in each others lives.
I suggest get to know a little bit about her then pick one topic and delve deeper into it.
Deep rapport
Depending on the situation, I think deep rapport is a great way to feel a really strong emotional connection. Think of deep rapport as the deeply delving into one specific topic that you’re both interested in or that you yourself are interested in or something that she is passionate about. If it’s something that she is passionate about and you can connect it to your life, great. I like to talk about what I do for work and how I’m passionate about it and I like to talk about her passions. You’re really talking so that you can both feel that emotion together – then you know you’re on the right track.
Creating a connection
If you want to create a connection, it’s all about going first. If you talk about intimate details of your life, then she’s going to talk about intimate details of her life. It is great to run with what we like to do for fun and the passions in our lives because everyone is excited about what they’re really passionate about. The more you can show your genuine excitement and enthusiasm for your life and how you experience life, the more she’ll feel it and get swept away by it. If you get her really excited in your presence, she’s going to connect that feeling with you and the more you do it. the more of a connection you’re both of you can have with each other if you are getting excited too.
There is no magical mystery highness – it’s really all about just talking with each other, but if you talk about subjects that you’re excited about, she will get excited and she will do the same. Think of the old hypnosis credo: You go first, if you go first she will follow.
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