Getting Started in Pick-Up Guide – Part 10: Connecting, Building Comfort, and Rapport Part A

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Part 10: Connecting Part A

Legend:

What to talk about once you hook

Once you’re reaching a point where a girl wants you to stay and talk, I assume attraction and begin to connect with her. The point of forming a connection is really to figure out some commonalities and things that you can do together to set up a future date. Some people argue that they want to talk about crazy deep subjects but for now I would suggest that you just get used to talking about what each of you do for work, what you guys do for fun, and if you want to get into it really what you’re passionate about.

Edge:

I would say that conversations in clubs should really focus more on vibe than subject matter. In other words, DEFINITELY don’t try to be deep or profound – keep it fun, light and engaging, but not deep.

I very much enjoy having deep, profound conversations about different subjects. But I can guarantee that even if you manage to get a girl engaged into a deep conversation with you, she will run off the moment she sees something shiny-looking and fun (metaphorically speaking). Women do not go to clubs to think. They go there to feel.

Legend:

Creating rapport and connection also known as building comfort

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