One of the advantages in journaling my experiences as I learn to improve my skills with women is that I can reflect back on what I’ve written.
Today I went through some of my older entries and cleaned up the tone and presentation a bit. See, I believe that this blog’s value to others comes from the fact that Legend and I put it all out there, raw, for everyone to see and hopefully to learn from.
At the same time, in going through my old posts I noticed that the tone in a few specific sections came across as arrogant and falsely confident
. To a point, it was – at that time, I was very focused on destroying my old beliefs and replacing them with powerful, confident new ones. The result was that I over-compensated and it came across through my writing. I could say that it’s a little embarrassing, but the truth is that this is a learning experience for me and I forgive myself for when things don’t come out perfect the first time around. Part of having a journal where I bare it all is acknowledging the times where I make a mistake.
In fact, something good really came out of going over all my old entries – it really gave me a perspective on how my mindset has shifted through the months: where I improved, where I got sloppy, what my motivations were and what kept me going. Self-knowledge is valuable and I was able to reap a lot of value from my review, even though I didn’t like everything I saw. (I think I should do a couple of posts, one on arrogance vs. cockiness and one on the importance on keeping a journal.)
So why did I go back and change the text if it’s part of my learning? Well, I think there is a lot of good information in there and I didn’t want that to get lost because some people were put off by my tone. I mean, it wasn’t that bad! 
But I am continually striving to make the content of this blog both entertaining and usable, so improving the text is part of that effort.
I always appreciate constructive criticism and feedback, so if you ever have a comment – good or bad – I’m totally open to hearing it. Comment away!
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Hello!
Very Interesting post! Thank you for such interesting resource!
PS: Sorry for my bad english, I’v just started to learn this language
See you!
Your, Raiul Baztepo