I get where you’re coming from and I thought about some of this beforehand. One of my main targets with this online journal / blog is to authentically capture my journey and self-development. And to do that, that means pulling no punches and showing my strengths and successes as well as my weaknesses and failures.

At the time time, I feel that there is still a stigma in the realm of men giving advice to other men about improving their relationships with women. There’s a stigma against using words like pick-up, seduction, lay report, etc. And really all of this stuff is meant to be used as a teaching tool of how dating / relationship dynamics are taking place. It’s the same stuff women talk about, but men would feel really weird using the same words that women use talk about it. Men think differently than women and that’s a good thing. Different doesn’t equal bad, but society and American-culture at large have almost demonized male sexuality, so interpretation can be skewed.

Aside from my own personal journaling, my goal in writing up things like a “lay report” or about my dating experiences is to share what has worked for me so that other men can improve their own dating lives. The problem is, this is the sort of thing some “feminazi” will take out of context and try to make me look bad. I don’t need that, so that was one of the reasons I took out the profanity and a few of the elements that contributed nothing to sharing constructive information.

Yeah, it sucks because I would have rather not changed anything that I’ve written, but I’ve received enough messages about the older posts that I felt it was worth it to modify a few minor details in them and thus save myself the aggravation of receiving complaints for what I wrote earlier on in my learning.

Great post and interesting dilemna you have here.

I dont think you should change it though.

Because those old posts give good contrast to how you have grown as a person.

We are all not perfect and by simply writing about this post about potentially rewriting your older ones is enough.

You would not be the person you are today .. had you not been that person a year ago.

People think that bad parts of our past should be something that we correct or make better.

But maybe there is no good or bad .. maybe there just IS.

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