It’s been a little over 13 weeks since Legend and I started going and I have had tremendous success so far. I don’t want to get into all the details, but let’s just say that I have met many wonderful women and have had some pretty great experiences so far. So people are starting to ask me what routines and such I’ve been doing to be successful…
I think what is more important is WHO is the person “doing” the pick up. How do I live through my life? Yeah, technique and actions are important to talk about. I think it’s essential to talk about who I am now – the person I’ve grown into.
When I am at my best (and, in turn, when my interactions go the best), I am being this person:
I live in the moment. I am totally present to the moment I am in. My mind isn’t somewhere else and it definitely isn’t analyzing anything.
I love the moment. Wherever I am, whatever the situation, I do my best to fully love it. I am grateful for it. Frankly, we should all be grateful. You could be one of the millions of people on Earth living in a hut… If you’re reading these words, you have luxuries people couldn’t have dreamt of 100 years ago.
I truly enjoy other areas of life. When I was in high school, I learned to play guitar and piano, but eventually stopped playing and singing. After college, I decided to pick it back it, but this time to love music… to go all the way with my playing and singing. Now, I don’t perform for others– I do it for myself. But my point here is that when I’m playing and singing, I go all the way with it. I immerse myself in the experience and I love it fully. When I’m listening to music, I really love the experience deeply. When I talk to a woman about music, she can feel that.
No negativity. I do not indulge in thoughts that don’t “feel good”. No self-doubt, no self-criticism, no guilt, no regret. Outwardly, no criticism, no attacking, no judgments, no hate, no jealousy. If I’m going to judge a situation, it’s going to be in a positive frame – optimistic. Legend will tell you – I am relentlessly optimistic.
It’s all good. Since I’m enjoying every moment, in the moment, I’m attached to whatever happens. I’m getting to learn and participate in life. All outcomes are great – I play the game and drive in a certain direction (towards hooking up), but simply being able to participate in the game is something to be grateful for… so I am.
What do you guys think? What is your experience like when you are out in the world, meeting new women?
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