I think a lot of people in the seduction community preach that they are not judgmental. They say don’t judge, give value, and be an open person. I think its very positive but I also think that a lot of people preach it but don’t practice it.
Everyone wants to aspire to a place where they are not judgmental and they certainly don’t want to be judged.
Recently I was at an event where one particular thing stood out to me. He was going on and on about being non- judgmental and how it can greatly effect everyone game then the conversation got onto the topic of strippers and porn stars and he immediately started spitting out snap negative judgments about them.
I think its extremely important to have core values such as being non-judgmental, but come on guys practice what you preach. There is nothing more un-attractive in a person regardless of anything else then [Click to Continue Reading…]
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This post is inspired by something I heard Entropy say recently. Credit to him and check out his blog.
Let me drill this down a bit: I’m not saying that my interactions with women don’t have painful moments, or frustrating moments, or sad or angering or confusing moments. What I am saying is that I now know that I will never be permanently damaged by my relationship with any one woman (on an emotional level).
I bring this up because there’s all this talk in our society and in the media about the guy-character that guys fucked over by a woman in the worst way and he’s just an emotional wreck. I think it’s a terrible role-model to keep putting up for men in our society – that kind of self-indulgent sulking is not productive and it is not necessary!
I do absolutely acknowledge and believe that there is value in natural grieving when love is lost. I absolutely believe that there’s nothing wrong with experiencing the natural shock, pain, horror, sadness, etc. when a relationship that you care about falls apart. I don’t even think that there’s anything wrong with feeling it when you try to approach a woman and you just get shot down.
What I’m saying is that once you’ve experienced it [Click to Continue Reading…]
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