Back in 2008, Nick (Legend) and I used to post feverishly on here. Almost daily. And we would religiously upload our weekly field reports (which are still up in the archives).

I think the most motivating thing for us was putting the message out there that normal guys could really succeed at game: even with severe approach anxiety, even with average looks, even if you have a boring job you hate.

But it wasn’t the schools of technique that set us free and gave us results. The different methods were enough to give us the courage to try, but they weren’t enough to get results.

I certainly wished that the gurus would set me free. How I would have loved it if just understanding Mystery Method, or acting cocky funny, or saying “magical lines” would give me results. It didn’t though – if anything, the more knowledge I collected, the more overwhelmed I felt. Collecting outer-game trinkets wasn’t the answer.

So inner game then… was that the answer? Well, no, not exactly.

I mean, I put a lot more stock into mastering your own inner game than outer game, but even still, understanding or even “doing” inner game work isn’t going to transform your life and give you the results you want.

What Nick and I were searching for (and eventually found) was…

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