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Journal

I love this website. I love posting on it and I love talking about pick-up artist / seduction / dating advice for men stuff.

I wish I had more time to post.  If I quit my 9-5, I would post daily and probably start up some sort of weekly podcast.  And I’m grateful to say, that day might not be far off…

This past month, I have been working coaching guys constantly.

To give you a snapshot of my week:  First, I work my 9-5 job (40 hours a week).  Then, I work out 5 days a week, so between the meal prep, gym time and commute to-and-from the gym (10 hours a week).  Sleep for an average of 7 hours a night comes out to about 50 hours a week.

So we’re at 100 hours out of 168.  3 days of the week I am spending doing in-field night-game coaching, which comes out to roughly 15 hours.  Then another 20 hours goes into phone coaching.  Plus typically I book one speaking event per week which is (in total) a 4-5 hour engagement.

The rest of the time gets used up on things like gassing up my car, laundry, paying bills, cleaning, etc.  And having a girl over to spend some quality time with.

When you tally it all up, my days are so packed that unfortunately I’ve had to let posting slip.  It’s a shame because I have had tons of in-field discoveries and secrets that I’ve wanted to share with you all, but it’s just a matter of borrowing the time.

So I’m checking in to let you all know that not only are we still here, we’re rocking out in a big way and I expect amazing things to start going up in the near future.

Peace.

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So over this past week, you guys have been reading about my job struggles.

When I write on this blog, my primary focus is to journal where I am actually at in my life.  Even if it’s negative or less than perfect.

But do I like sharing that stuff?  Not at all…  It’s uncomfortable to me on a few levels:

First, I’m embarrassed that I personally have struggled with that particular thing, whatever it is.  Which is ridiculous because if anyone else said what I was saying, there would be no reason for them to be embarrassed.  I would have nothing but empathy for them.  Not pity, but empathy.

Second, I’m the type of person that hates to show weakness.  I would love for this blog to be reams of lay reports and me talking about how awesome life is as I cast out pearls of wisdom.  Truth is, sometimes I struggle hard with life in general.

Regardless of my struggles, I NEVER let them defeat me.  Never.

Even in the deepest pit of my periods of depression, [Click to Continue Reading…]

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Being Effective

by Edge Journal

I was at my shitty job today, eating a sub from Quiznos. As I was sitting there, spacing out and trying to forget that I was sitting in a cubicle, I started looking at the paper wrapper for the sandwich. I didn’t look at what was written there, but I had the cognition that somebody [...]

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Finding Redemption in a Garage

by Edge Journal

So I’ve been bitching about my job and how much I hate it for the past couple of posts. And the fact is, I put it out there because that’s where I was at when I wrote it.  But there’s a few things to understand. First, I am not here to put up a false [...]

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The Dating Adventures of a Depressed Hate-filled Monster

by Edge Journal

I guess one of the high points of being practiced in the area of picking up and dating women is that I can still be successful even when I feel like utter shit. Half the time, I have to fight to not hate my life these days.  My hatred for my job and my overall [...]

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I Hate My Job

by Edge Journal

Lately I feel as though my life resembles the beginning of Fight Club. I don’t just hate my job.  I loathe my job.  I detest my job. I work a 9 to 5 for a company nobody has ever heard of, doing work that nobody notices for a product that nobody cares about. I started [...]

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