Night Two:

Saturday night the weekend continued.

Sometime Logistics suck and this was probably the worse I have experienced in a long time.  I went down to this party downtown bringing my FB/Pivot.   Swanky apartment 20 guys 3 girls including the one I brought and man oh man one of them was super hot.  They where both wearing matching boots outside their tight jeans.  I think its the new fashion but it looks hot either way.

So I sit down.. thinking man oh man how am I going to do this.

Social Proof Power

I position myself with my pivot on the couch where the two girls can see.  Clearly I am miles above everyone else since I have the pleasure of enjoying female company.   Either way its only a matter of time.  Especially in a party situation and not a bar.  Also I can’t fuck up because there is no one else.

Timing is everything I sit there talking to my FB for a long time.  The guy throwing the party comes over a few times and tells me I should have helped him plan it to get him more girls.   He has been to my parties where its just me, Edge and 50 girls.   Eventually the girls come and give me proximity and I open by telling them the both get the prize for having the coolest boots in the room.   Insta hook and I make them laugh and one of them sits down next to me.

Now this is how I  have been gaming lately.  I try to talk about how every other guy is clueless compared to me and also I am starting to talk about sex.   I don’t really know what I am doing yet  but what ever it is its working.   After awhile they both sit down and we talk for like an hour.    They start telling me that the other guys are not even competition for me.

Unfortunately even though this girl is super hot, she is dumb as a door nob.   The best way for me to describe it is almost like a vally girl. I number close both of them maybe I will take them out with me for social proof.

Girls notice everything because although I have been captivated in the corner with the only 3 girls around me at the whole place a few more have trickled in.   Social Proof is power because now I am getting ready to leave and go home and screw my FB 2 new girls open me.  One of them is mildly interesting and we are talking about sex right off the bat.  She was kinda cute and it was in the bag but she didn’t half live up to my standards of tall, skinny, super hot and INTELLIGENT and I don’t really care about putting more notches on my belt actually I would rather not and I am definitely going to already get laid tonight so I take off.

What I learned:

Using social proof and jealous for building attraction is insanely powerful.  I think I may over use it but I like going to excess.  The probably is sometime I really feel I build way too much value for myself and some girls can’t handle it.   They don’t think they are good enough.   This leaves me with two things I can do.  Much more qualification or simply just wait for the girls that will naturally live up to my standards.   I already do tons of qualification but as with anything when implementing something new I need to calibrate it.

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And you may find that you will have girls chasing you around trying to sleep with you before you know it.

If any of you guys out there are still running game where you pick a target and try a sniper approach then you know sometimes it feels like you working way way way way too hard. I am trying to switch it up.

I am doing some tweaking and already seeing a huge shift.

I am making a conscious effort to completely scrap my old way of approaching a group and going after a specific girl.  It was just way to much work and focused effort.  Instead I am adopting the mentality of befriend and charm everyone.  Open everyone and charm them all then using social proof and preselection I can position myself to get the girl that I really want.

Building so much value for yourself in the room that the girl you want will already be attracted and want you before you even talk to them.

I have to credit AFC Adam for bring this to my attention.  Its amazing and all of my old game still holds true, its just how you go about opening that changes.  Also I have found that when done right attraction is already handled and its much stronger then if you just go straight into the set you want.

Friday Night:

I went out with FB/Pivot to the bar to meet up with this girl that I want to get with.  I haven’t hung out with her for a while but its always on but logistically its been a nightmare to ever get alone with her so I haven’t closed yet.  Its really my own fault for not taking the time off from working to go get her.

She is by far the hottest girl in the bar wearing this cute office attire with a big belt right under her breats.  I am in the set I want already and I don’t need to do more work outside of it.   I already brought my attraction material with me.  My Pivot.

Game girls with girls its soo easy.  I feel like I don’t need game doing it this way.

I have found that bringing a hot girl out with you can drastically change the perception everyone gets of you instantly.   Girls want what they perceive other girls to have already.  My target can’t stop asking if my pivot is my girlfriend.   If you are bringing girls with you especially hot girls everyone starts assuming you are sleeping with them whether you are or not.  I am but just hanging with them works.

I definitely need a good routine for the question is she your girlfriend because it happened to me twice this weekend from my targets already.  Just saying no doesn’t seem to be the best but I will just have to field test different things. I know as I continue to run preselection biased game that its going to constantly come up.

Either way the first goal of the night is to charm her two friends which is now becoming second nature for me.  We spend time down town and now I have her roommate in love with me so that should be a good go not to get in my way.   My pivot leaves to go to a different bar and the rest of us  bounce to another bar.  Its me and 3 girls and some guy opens us and I spend 10 minutes tooling him out well the girls laugh at him.  At this point I am a little drunk and its amusing so I don’t just ignore him which by the way is the fastest way to blow anyone out.

After last call we all bounce back to the girls apartment.  Its a nice little place but the neighbors are outside and one of them decides to come over and be neighborly and have a smoke with us.   I charm her and she invites us over for a drink.  At this point I could have really used a wing man because I am dealing with 5 different girls and there is only so much I can do at once.

After a few minutes the two girls I came over with go back.  At this point I am stuck with a drink in my hand that they just made me and I don’t want to be rude but my target is next door in her room and I have no interest in being social with these new girls.   Before I can think of a way out I practically get attacked by the Blonde roommate.

I feel that my rapport skills have hit a new level now that I just try to charm everyone instead of zoning in on one girl.   The three girls are captivated and the Blonde one try’s to grab my package with out her roommates looking.  The short haired girl notices and starts laughing like crazy which incites the fat one to start freaking out.  I quickly smooth over the tension by talking more but at this point the Blonde one must have decided to lay all her cards on the table and feels that its okay to try to make out with me now that her roommates all know and think I am such a charming guy.

She was cute and all, but at this point I really want a challenge and the girl I wanted was right next door waiting for me.  I decide to hightail it out of there.  I excuse myself and run back next door.   Seconds later the Blonde girl is banging on the door looking for me.   I am hiding in my HB’s room telling her she needs to protect me.   We don’t answer the door and a minute later the Blonde girl is out on the balcony calling for me.  Total time charming her like 10 minutes and now she wants my cock bad.   Dam my charming self its getting me into trouble these days.

Now at this point I’ve been drinking and my game starts to suffer.   My FB starts calling me and my target is all like oo is that your girlfriend calling you.  Again I need a good routine for this point because the most I can come up with is yeah she is one of my girlfriends but I think I am starting to fry her circuits or push the player vibe I have 2 girls chasing me hardcore right in front of her.    Which to my own fault or credit I purposely did.  I am really experimenting on the whole extreme preselection and I don’t know what I am doing yet.

Either way I did something wrong I took her shit test and failed by taking it.   Or she needs more comfort and time because She invites me to stay but on the couch.  With her roommate watching over us.  Again great time I could have used a wing man to separate the two but live to sarge another day.  Thus I am getting Cock Blocked because the two of them definitely just conferenced about it and its a no go for tonight I could tell right when they both confronted me instead of the roommate just going to bed.

Either way I know she wants me… hahah she is txting me as I write this so its only a matter of time.

Lesson Learned:

I need to figure out how much is too much but its amazing how much I don’t need to work if I am just using preselection and spiking jealousy.  The attraction is extreme compared to talking about any value or using buying temperature.  I think because I am actively setting up situations and demonstrating in real time that girls will chase me around.

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Last Saturday night was amazing. Plain and simple. It was a first of a record high. Audio coming soon.

I followed all my rules and got myself into a great talkative flow state.

High lights of the night Edge opened a set on the street and I plowed straight into this girl we locked eyes and I amped it up like crazy. I went after her with out let up. I let it go and everything I had been working on in the past months just clicked. She was by far one of the hottest girls I had ever gone after. Mid solid 9′s Blonde Swedish. I toyed with her teased her she tried to shit test me with what I was wearing and I out witted her. Teasing back and forth and making her do spins for me. Qualified the crap out of her.

Something I’ve noticed with qualification: it really puts the girls on the spot and they need to pause to react to it. Then they really really feel it and start to worry if it is enough for you. I didn’t want to leave. I should have pushed farther for the make out just for the hell of it but the vibe was just so good. We gave each other nick names.

I tend to hold back on the make out becuase an initial make out in my experiences seems to make the second meeting awkward. Like the only reason that I am trying to see them again is to get in their pants. I want to implement more intrigue type game to add in later after solid attraction is built. To really suck the girl into a time brigde. Either way I got the number and she was one of the hottest girls I have ever talked to success full sarge. We will see if it pans out.

Round two of notables at the bar I just connecting insanely with this girl. It was so on it blew my mind but pretext to it was not easy. I came into Edge’s set and got a solid five minutes of shit tests from this girl. Smoking hot with a bitchy attitude just the way I like it. Little Italian girl with a fierce temperament. It was amazing how after just plowing through the bullshit I could connect so well afterward. This is the level I want to be at it. It was like a click where this is what game should be like. I had 3 groups of guys standing around dumbstruck watching what I was doing. These girls had just blown off some guy right before Edge went up. I came in and she was feeding me shit like this is not how you pick up a girl. I ignore tease and plow. I had a audience and it was great. It was like a giant performance. Just lock in and it was on. Standing against the bar with her constantly leaning way way way way in to talk to me because it is so loud. I started to notice tons of proximity from other girls and the guys around were watching dumb struck. It was like a hurricane. I like being the center of attention. It really is a performance.

I also have stepped up my bartender game. I tease them telling them that they are number 3 or up and down grade them. Basically ranking them verse the other ones. Tonight I pulled out some roplaying which she actually started and I pushed really far for a bartender. I put two of them in frames that I was cheating on them with other bartenders. One bit real hard. Notice I was using names of other bartenders to each of them. The vip on completely playing into the frame so awesome I will slowly amp it up as I go.

All in all that night I had a click and the feeling of this is how it should be played. We will see if this pans out if not I have my Internet girls and there is next weekend.

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New audio is up for 07.12.08. Also, here’s a picture from 07.11.08 of the hot Brazilian chick I pulled from the club. Had to block the faces though – keep everyone’s ID on the DL.

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I’m in a good place now. I think that I’m going to start having some real success soon.

This weekend I made out with a girl on Friday and spent half the night with her in the club. She’s been texting me, wanting to hang out. I wanted to bounce her that night back to my place, but she was the ride for her friends so logistically it wasn’t happening. I’ll throw a note on here with any future developments.

On Saturday, I ended up spending most of the night with a female personal trainer. She was older than me and was a little aggressive… different than what I’m used to, but she had a nice body and I dug that (hey, it is what it is). I ended up bouncing back to her place with her friends.

For the record, I didn’t end up taking it all the way – no available bed and I didn’t feel like doing her in the bathroom or my car. But she seemed pretty pleased with how the night went, so I think that’s good karma for all.

I’ve been doing this for about two months and I’ve gone from being completely uncomfortable approaching women in clubs/bars to bouncing them, moving them around, day 2′ing, hooking up, etc. Every set I do hooks now… it’s just a matter of if I want to do anything with it.

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Last weekend was crazy and successful.

Friday good progress and bounced a few sets.

Saturday day time – no approaches completely choded out.

Saturday night – On fire

All I remember is consistently going after this one super hot blonde. I finally went atfer what I want.

She was at a table and was getting hit on all night by other guys. She couldn’t hear me so I opened her with a middle finger. The bouncer chased me off after a bit. I re-opened her walking by teasing her. Got two girls to flirt with me and Edge in front of her. Brought one over with me to hit on her again and blew out a guy who was trying to chat her up. All in all I went after exactly what I wanted. I felt like I only put in 90% effort. Next time hopefully I can muster 110% effort.

Craziness. I never felt so good. Actually doing exactly what I set out to do. This is what I am going for. I see why you really have to work the whole room to get the one hottest girl. Social proof and pre-selection are key. I want to work more on this.

Sunday night – Strip poker at the house with 4 girls from a number I got a few weeks ago. 2 make outs.

Audio coming soon

Legend

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