You can lose your life at once or one day at a time if you’re not careful.  Go out and get what you want.

Quick site update for all our long time readers.

I know we haven’t been posting pua articles lately but Eric (Edge) and I have been off in the lab developing the next level in seduction game and overhauling a lot of the site. Its some exciting stuff and I am going to share it all with you so stay tuned.

We are in the process of a site update. Newsletter revamp and complete overhaul. Look out for some new cutting edge free tele-seminars, pua bootcamps, and the next evolution in pick-up technology. Stay tuned for some amazing new articles we plan on updating regularly just like we did back in the day.

So do me a favor and if you know anyone else who is into improving their lives with women. Let them know about this site. And if you are not on the pua newsletter get on it now by signing up below or clicking here and following the instructions to get the best pua tips. We are going to be releasing 6 months of field audio just to our subscribers.

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Chasing State:

While I think it’s great to be in state while your out, being in state is probably the least important thing in pickup because you absolutely don’t need it to accomplish anything. State is nothing more than a tool for you to use. Furthermore, by worrying about being in state or waiting for it to happen, you’re shooting yourself in the foot instead of just getting on with having fun. Waiting to be in state is counterproductive and will actually throw you into a vicious cycle of negative feelings. Forget about “trying” to be in state. Go out and have fun.

2 Kinds of State: Validation Based State and Pure State Along with chasing state you want to avoid validation based state. There are so many guys out there who use attention from girls as fuel for “being in state”. When they get IOI’s from girls they emotionally react to them, taking their feelings of being happy and channeling that into a state they normally aren’t in. Doing this on a consistent basis is actually using validation in a way that hurts them in the long run and will cause them to be state dependent and “addicted” to “state. In other words, they are taking energy from an external source and using it to motivate them. Breaking free from being addicted to Validation Based State is not easy because the person has to completely retrain themselves.

On the other end of the scale, Pure State is when you’re happy being who you are and you don’t give a shit about what anything else thinks. This energy comes from inside, so the only person responsible for this is you. This is a lot harder to achieve because you first have to accept who you are as a person and you have to know your own value. The other thing about Pure State is that you have be “in the moment”. The ability to enjoy things as they are happening not only makes you attractive to women but the removal of the past and future from your consciousness gives you the ability to exist free of limitation.

There 3 qualities guys need for Pure State. They are sexual confidence, social confidence and core confidence/identity. To have these confidences, you need to be comfortable escalating to and having sex, being comfortable and dominant with women in social settings and be comfortable with and know yourself. Guys who have consistent results with women have good levels of all the three confidences.

How Are You Getting Into State?

Look back at the last time you were “in state”. How did you get there? Was it energy received from an external source? Or was it energy conjured by knowing your own value and living in the moment?

If your answer was the former, you’ve got some work to do. Start having more sex, be more social and develop your identity.

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Opening Other People – Introvert Mode You should be aware of which mode the person is in because it helps you gauge the potential difficulty of opening the set. For instance, if you want to open a girl walking down the street but she’s in Introvert Mode, your opening line or immediate follow up statement (your transition) has to be powerful enough to hook her into conversation with you. If it isn’t, she’ll stay in Introvert Mode. Do take into account the fact that there will always be other things that factor into whether you’ll be able to hook her or not, such as; is she on the phone, is she late; those kind of things. If you succeed you bring her into Extrovert Mode and you’ll be able to communicate with her easily.

Opening Other People – Extrovert Mode When people are out being social, they are in extrovert mode. They are generally easier to open for the simple fact that they are already out of Introvert Mode. You still have to hook the set with interesting discussion though, or you are perceived as not being high value.

Opening Other People – Group Introvert Mode If people are talking to each toher, pretty much the same rules apply, except the difficulty of opening and hooking is a little less. Why only a little? Because a group as a whole can be in Group Introvert Mode, where the only thing they are aware of are their own thoughts and the thoughts being communicated to the rest of the group. There may be one person in the group who has either assumed the duty of monitoring the outside goings on by their disinterest in the conversation or has been assigned the duty due to their low status among the group. These are the people no one listens to. But the group is still partially in Extrovert Mode so they are a little easier to open overall. You won’t be successful if you are closer to the Introvert end of the spectrum because people will equate that with you being a low value person. The closer you are to the Extrovert end of the spectrum the more successful you will open.

Stay tuned for part 3 and get on the newsletter if your not on it, we have some special exclusive stuff there for our dedicated readers.

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Theory for Getting Into State: From Introvert to Extrovert

There are a few concepts that I want to discuss that I haven’t heard talked about before. Hopefully this is original and not entirely heard before, though some of it will be.

2 Kinds of State: Introvert and Extrovert When people are alone they are in Introvert Mode, they are thinking in their heads and in their own universe. When people are with another person or other people, most often they are in Extrovert Mode and are sharing ideas or communicating feelings. We are naturally in some stage of either Introvert or Extrovert at any given time, and we naturally shift from one mode to the other without thinking about it or making any kind of effort. But there are some people out there who have a hard time talking to other people, or, going from Introvert Mode to Extrovert Mode. I’m going to discuss 2 different views. First will be about ourselves and second will be about other people. Let’s begin.

You – From Introvert to Extrovert Most of us are alone before we go out, so what we need to do is go from introvert to extrovert, which is very simple. You start by opening strangers. They don’t have to be girls we are attracted to, they can be anybody you cross paths with. The more people you open and the more positive interactions you have with people, and the more you cross from introvert to extrovert, the closer you come to being in state. I’ll describe state simply as fully enjoying a positive experience while completely in extrovert mode. Sometimes we meet up with friends and may be part of an Introverted Group. An Introverted Group are people who are all talking together and are almost completely oblivious to what’s going on around them; they’ve locked other people out of their circle. I’ll discuss this more later. When you are in extrovert mode, opening is easy and you are perceived as being high value, or at least have enough to continue talking to. Now let’s apply this to other people.

Stay tuned for more.  If your not on the newsletter get on it now and feel free to send me questions.

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We are going to start having some new guest blogger’s from time to time. Our first one is going to be Sin. That’s right Mystery’s original wing and original co-instructor. He is the guy that taught Style ( Neil Strauss) in his first workshop. He has some great insights that no one in the community talks about. You guys know we rarely ever plug anyone here on PUE but I believe this guy has some amazing and unique value.

Addition / Update:

Edge: I think it’s going to be great.

Legend and I talked about it a few nights ago. There have been community figures that have reached out to us before to do a straight up product plug and we’ve refused. It’s just not worth compromising our integrity to make a few bucks.

What Legend is talking about here is giving community figures an opportunity to come on here and post up some articles with real, free exclusive content specifically for our audience. Then, after maybe a few articles or so, they may pitch about their latest project.

This way, the instructor gets to give value for free (which is the spirit of this site) and then give their message of what they want to promote afterward. The people who are interested can check it out and the people who aren’t can ignore it, but at least they’re not getting bombarded by marketing, banner ads, spammy newsletter installments, etc. I see this as an opportunity for some of the best and brightest in this area of self-improvement to contribute to making everyone’s lives better AND getting some publicity for their work (since we are one of the most highly trafficked blogs in the seduction community.

What are your thoughts of having some more guest bloggers?

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Mystery’s approach to gaming is very inspiring. One of the major elements to his game that I want to integrate into myself is the ability to think of everything as practice. Somehow to detach my ego from each individual interaction.

If you look at everything scientifically, almost like a social experiment, you can remove the rejection element. I believe in fully embracing rejection on one side, but at the same time there must be a way to look at everything as just practice. Get rid of the whole rejection frame. This will allow us to really go after the girl that we really want. We are all here to develop a skill set. Once I integrate this, everything will be much easier. I believe the key to it is detaching your EGO from each and every interaction. This will allow us to really pull ourselves back out of the interaction and at the same time push each interaction without the outcome weighing on us.

If you go up to a girl and it doesn’t go well and you feel that it is a reflection on yourself, then it’s going to hurt your ego. On the other side, if you look at it is an experiment with your stories and how you deliver them, then really if you get rejected then it’s just your sales pitch that got rejected.

I don’t like the word rejected. It implies a negative connotation. I think the key is to embrace rejection wholeheartedly, but at the same time look at everything as practice. Just another set where you are trying to figure out how your game works.

I really want to get into refraiming rejection, so it doesn’t have a negative connotation.

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