I was having a conversation with Legend this afternoon about taking effective action to reach my goals.
Specifically, we were talking about blow-outs and how crashing and burning with a girl or a few girls is a very good sign.
Why? Because it means you’re truly putting yourself out there and experimenting to the limit.
So yeah, I admit it. I still get blown out. But I also have great success because I put myself out there all the way – anyone who says they have a perfect track record is lying to you.
In fact, even some of the top “gurus” in the field (who Legend and I have hung out with) admit to having true success with only 1 out of 3 women.
Now before you start spitting on a 33% success rate for the most well-known gurus in the pick-up artist arena, think about this: A 33% success rate means having the most beautiful woman you can imagine eating out of the palm of your hand, willing to do nearly anything for you.
If that means having 2 “unsuccessful” interactions with 2 other incredibly gorgeous women before I reach that third successful one… that’s a deal I can live with. And I don’t think there’s any guy who would turn that deal down either.
Anyway, there was a point I was driving toward here. I had said that, if anything, I should be aiming to have more blow-outs because that shows that I am truly getting out of my comfort zone.
Don’t get me wrong – since we started Pick-up Evolution in 2008, my comfort zone has expanded greatly from where it was.
But comfort zone is something [Click to Continue Reading…]
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