I couldn’t come up with a good name for the post, but this is an exchange between me and someone else who’s studied pick-up for a while.  I figure since I took the time to write a response, I might as well share it with everyone here (names/locations changed, and clipped out some details):

Friday night I checked out a piano bar. The piano man was magnificent! He got the whole crowd singing. I was right there, next to the piano, singing my heart out. Along with a half dozen young girls. I estimated that they were either in their late teens (possibly jailbait) or early twenties. In other words, at least thirty years younger than me. I flirted with them during the singing, but did not expect anything to come of it.

During the singing, one of the girls — in my opinion, the most attractive one – Read the rest of this entry »

Recently we’ve been get all sorts of great letters from the readers of the site. Sometimes someone will ask a great question and I’ll think to myself, “You know what?  I should just write a post about it since I’m sure a whole bunch of people have the same question.”

I am all for discussion and I am excited to see the rise in participation on this blog.  I think we’re starting to create a community here – one where guys help out other guys and freely discuss these topics, without all the marketing garbage and product hawking…  I think it’s refreshing.

Here are some recent letters on different topics that I think you’ll all enjoy: Read the rest of this entry »

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I want to share my perspective on why we put up the lay reports in the first place and dispel some of the assumptions people have come at me with:

Are you bragging? I could see how someone would get the impression that I’m bragging, but I can sincerely tell you that I have no desire or intention to brag about my sex life. I am put-off by other people who brag about “scoring with women”. Further, in my personal life I share very very little about my dating and sex life, even with those I am closest to… I just don’t think it’s something that needs to be discussed in a social

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Oh, well are you a chauvinist? Most of the people who have a problem with me posting lay reports are women. Yet Read the rest of this entry »

It’s been a little over 13 weeks since Legend and I started going and I have had tremendous success so far. I don’t want to get into all the details, but let’s just say that I have met many wonderful women and have had some pretty great experiences so far. So people are starting to ask me what routines and such I’ve been doing to be successful…

I think what is more important is WHO is the person “doing” the pick up. How do I live through my life? Yeah, technique and actions are important to talk about. I think it’s essential to talk about who I am now – the person I’ve grown into.

When I am at my best (and, in turn, when my interactions go the best), I am being Read the rest of this entry »

I received an e-mail from someone who’s been following along my activities. In the e-mail, he is talking about the different ways he’s suffered in the past with women. We got into a discussion about focusing on the past – I would like to share my response with you all:

As I progressed in my own self-development, I focused less and less and less on the past.

At first, I was addicted to it. I indulged in thinking about painful memories or how I was wronged or how things went wrong and what I felt it meant about my potential. It became so painful and obstructive to where I wanted to go that I decided that it was a habit I had to break. But what was I going to replace it with?

Simply put… I replace it with continuing to build a new reality for myself. I continue to act into new, empowering frames where there used to be a weak or unhelpful one. When I have recognized a pattern in myself of acting in a way that does not generate the responses I want, I ask myself, “Under what circumstances (aka In what frame) would I Read the rest of this entry »