Archive for the “Mailbag” Category

Recently one of our readers sent me a message asking how we balance our jobs with learning to improve with women. I work a 9-5 while still going out and experimenting with pick-up artist / seduction material.

I sent him a personal response and promised him that I would expand on it in the blog. Here are some excerpts from my response to him as well as some expansions:

This is what Legend and I have been doing since we started up in mid-April. Every Friday and Saturday night, no matter what, is our night to go out on the town. No excuses - sickness, weather, tiredness are never an excuse. We force ourselves out every weekend and we always stay out until at least … [Click Here to Read Post] »

I think one of the things that sets this site apart from the majority of sites in this area (aside from having ZERO advertising/marketing bullshit) is the number of lay reports on our site.

I want to share my perspective on why we put up the lay reports in the first place and dispel some of the assumptions people have come at me with:

Are you bragging? I could see how someone would get the impression that I’m bragging, but I can sincerely tell you that I have no desire or intention to brag about my sex life. I am put-off by other people who brag about “scoring with women”. Further, in my personal life I share very very little about my dating and sex life, even with those I am closest to… I just don’t think it’s something that needs to be discussed in a social context.

Oh, well are you a chauvinist? Most of the people who have a problem with me posting lay reports are women. Yet … [Click Here to Read Post] »

Background:

When it comes to picking up/dating beautiful women, the majority of the focus is on how to meet a woman and hook up with her. There’s not a lot of focus on lifestyle as a whole, so I am hoping that I can contribute to an area that gets less attention but is still very important.

As some of you know, I made the decision to dive head first into learning how to succeed with women back in late April this year. I had been going out every Friday and Saturday with my wing, Legend, for about six weeks when everything clicked.

It was around that week that I began playing with push-pull energy. At that point that I started really getting results - for me, adding in that energy was key. For the most part, I have pretty extensively … [Click Here to Read Post] »

It’s been a little over 13 weeks since Legend and I started going and I have had tremendous success so far. I don’t want to get into all the details, but let’s just say that I have met many wonderful women and have had some pretty great experiences so far. So people are starting to ask me what routines and such I’ve been doing to be successful…

I think what is more important is WHO is the person “doing” the pick up. How do I live through my life? Yeah, technique and actions are important to talk about. I think it’s essential to talk about who I am now – the person I’ve grown into.

When I am at my best (and, in turn, when my interactions go the best), I am being … [Click Here to Read Post] »

OK, since I’m always talking about how I pull girls to my house talking about how great such-and-such a song is, it was only a matter of time before someone asked for my playlist. So I am going to share with you all (in the privacy of my journal/blog) my current hook-up playlist.

For your convenience, I’ve added Amazon links to each of the songs so you can hear a sample:

1. Stan Getz - So Danco Samba
2. Pink (feat Steven Tyler) - Misery
3. The Beatles … [Click Here to Read Post] »

I received an e-mail from someone who’s been following along my activities. In the e-mail, he is talking about the different ways he’s suffered in the past with women. We got into a discussion about focusing on the past - I would like to share my response with you all:

As I progressed in my own self-development, I focused less and less and less on the past.

At first, I was addicted to it. I indulged in thinking about painful memories or how I was wronged or how things went wrong and what I felt it meant about my potential. It became so painful and obstructive to where I wanted to go that I decided that it was a habit I had to break. But what was I going to replace it with?

Simply put… I replace it with continuing to build a new reality for myself. I continue to act into new, empowering frames where there used to be a weak or unhelpful one. When I have recognized a pattern in myself of acting in a way that does not generate the responses I want, I ask myself, “Under what circumstances (aka In what frame) would I … [Click Here to Read Post] »