Archive for the “Lay Reports” Category

The other night I had a conversation with my ex-girlfriend. Doesn’t happen often - frankly she’s been cold with me for many months now and it’s clear that even the friendship that we once had has gone sour. I’ve wanted to hold onto the hope that we’d be able to at least stay friends and have some kind of closeness, but it’s clear that it’s time for me to let go.

So what is letting go? Letting go is refusing to feed the thoughts about another person anymore. Just refusing to entertain them. Whether that means just being unreactive when the thought comes up or thinking about something (anything) else… When I stop entertaining thoughts on anything, it takes the emotional wind out of that thought’s sails and it disappears.

In my mind, I still remember all the great times we had together. I remember the ups and the downs and I don’t regret any of it. Sure, there were lessons … [Click Here to Read Post] »

I think one of the things that sets this site apart from the majority of sites in this area (aside from having ZERO advertising/marketing bullshit) is the number of lay reports on our site.

I want to share my perspective on why we put up the lay reports in the first place and dispel some of the assumptions people have come at me with:

Are you bragging? I could see how someone would get the impression that I’m bragging, but I can sincerely tell you that I have no desire or intention to brag about my sex life. I am put-off by other people who brag about “scoring with women”. Further, in my personal life I share very very little about my dating and sex life, even with those I am closest to… I just don’t think it’s something that needs to be discussed in a social context.

Oh, well are you a chauvinist? Most of the people who have a problem with me posting lay reports are women. Yet … [Click Here to Read Post] »

Several weekends ago, Legend and I decide to throw a pretty large bash at my place. Roughly one hundred guests came, all ready to party.

I’m walking around, making my rounds as the host and chatting with people, having a great time. I’m meeting all sorts of hot women and we’re bantering and joking around with each other. All over the room, girls are looking at me and smiling.

Everyone is getting steadily more and more drunk and happy. I’m thinking, “This is awesome… this is one of the best parties I’ve been to in a long, long time and it’s my party.” Things could not get any better

Then things changed…

I go outside to my deck to make sure everyone is doing well. I walk to the edge of the deck and look down the hill at the entrance to my house. A taxi cab is just sitting there.

Legend goes, “Want me to … [Click Here to Read Post] »

It all started on a rainy Sunday. You know the ones that you are tell yourself that its not even worth going out on, but boy was I wrong. Every night has potential now in my book despite the rain and an off night it can still be good.

The weather was crappy and there were only a few people at the bar so it stated out as more of boys night out just chilling. I am sitting at a table chilling with my old high school friend when these two hot Asian girls walk in and stand next to the bar. I get my “I should approach adventurous feeling” inside, so I get up to get more drinks and walk over next to them.

They are both a little shorter then me one of them is super hot even though she is dressed down in jeans (HBAA) about 5′5″ and a 110 lbs real skinny with decent sized breasts for an Asian girl. The other one looks like she would be good if … [Click Here to Read Post] »

Background:

When it comes to picking up/dating beautiful women, the majority of the focus is on how to meet a woman and hook up with her. There’s not a lot of focus on lifestyle as a whole, so I am hoping that I can contribute to an area that gets less attention but is still very important.

As some of you know, I made the decision to dive head first into learning how to succeed with women back in late April this year. I had been going out every Friday and Saturday with my wing, Legend, for about six weeks when everything clicked.

It was around that week that I began playing with push-pull energy. At that point that I started really getting results - for me, adding in that energy was key. For the most part, I have pretty extensively … [Click Here to Read Post] »

Last Saturday night, Legend and I decide not to go out on the town and instead throw a party at my house. We create an event on Facebook and go to great lengths to fill up this party. We add girls on Facebook, we invite everyone in our cells phones, we have friends tell their friends, etc.

Well, we end up doing too good a job, because by midnight we are pushing 200 guests at my house.

Sounds like fun, right? Wrong. I end up playing the role of bouncer all night – I don’t have one drink and I barely get to talk to anyone. Legend at least gets some liquor in him (and yells at people, so he’s loving the bouncer role.)

One girl showed up who … [Click Here to Read Post] »

After talking with Edge and figuring out these current sticking points I felt the need to go back over the successes I have had in the past year and try to incorperate the key factors into my current skill set. This is my most memorable one. cross posted off a private forum, now that everything is being put out in the open Pictures and all.

Report:
Night one Friday.
Friday I came down to visit my buddy with on simple goal I am getting laid this weekend. We went out and ran 4 solid sets Friday got 4 numbers but nothing really interesting. I’ve become extremely picky over the past year after my last ltr. I have been working a lot of assholeness into my sets. Kind of like an extreme cocky and funny but basically I just say … [Click Here to Read Post] »

The drinks are finishing up, I say, “OK, let’s go to my house and listen to some music. You have to hear those songs.” She agrees and we’re off.

I keep the conversation going from the bar all the way up to my room. “Oh, hey, let me show you how I do up the room when I’m doing yoga.” I start lighting candles and some incense. “Teach me some yoga right now! I want to learn it. I need to relax.”

OK, fair enough… So I start off playfully, “OK, I’m your yoga teacher and you’re my student. Do you promise that if I teach you this stuff, you’ll be a good student and do everything I say?” Yes. “OK, then we’ll do it. But this means you’re special, because I normally don’t teach anyone this stuff.” (True.)

So I start showing her the basics of breathing and movement. I show her a few different asanas (yoga movements) and then after a few minutes … [Click Here to Read Post] »

I met this girl the other day complete feisty personality and she could dish it out almost as well as I could give it to her. I had her over to go swimming the other day. When I first met her she didn’t seem as hot as her attitude but dam. She was dressed down completely not trying to impress me in anyway but when she walked out of the bathroom in her bikini dam. She had the best body I’ve seen in a long long time. Perfect breasts big c-cups and really skinny with nice rock hard abs no fat at all. She could be raking it in as a stripper if she wanted. It was taking all my energy not to stare like a dog the entire time we were hanging out. Either way right then and there I decided I am going to get this girl. She had to leave right after swimming giving us no time for anything. I think to myself time in the bank. She trys to make me jealous talking about this guy she was going to see after me. No reaction from me at all. Cool anyway we will hang out later then. Hugs good bye.

We txt back and froth for two days teasing each other and me baiting her to come over swimming again. Yesterday she comes over. It starts off slow, but I set … [Click Here to Read Post] »

As promised, here’s the in-field picture (with faces blocked.)

By the time my girl is halfway through her second drink, I’m already on my fourth. And considering that I don’t drink in bars or clubs when I go out, I’ve become kind of a lightweight (or lighter weight) so I stopped myself from drinking any more.

“Let’s go back and listen to that music… I’m done drinking,” I said. She agrees and we get up.

While walking back to my house, we continue to talk about different topics and the banter continues too. We arrive in my room - I had already talked about how I love to do yoga, so I say, “Oh man, let me show you how I set up for yoga.” (I always convey excitement to show the girl things that will set the stage for hooking up… go figure.) So I turn out the lights, light some candles … [Click Here to Read Post] »

Met a great girl Friday night. I’m not going to go into great detail in this post. Just grab the audio from the Field Debrief Audio section.

This is what pick-up/seduction is all about.

Just to paint a picture… this girl has gorgeous mocha colored skin, a fantastic smile with adorable dimples, a nice pert butt and long, flowing black hair. Nice white teeth (which I like), very pretty face and a grade A body. Fantastic.

At the end of Friday, I send her a couple light texts. Then Saturday afternoon I accidentally call her. I meant to call a girl I work with, only to have her voice on the other end of the line… “Great timing,” she says, “I’m on my break.” Realizing I called the wrong girl, without missing a beat, I say, “Good, cause I’m about to run out the door. Let’s meet up tomorrow.”
“For what,” she asks.
“Oh, we’re going to have an adventure.”
“Nice OK, I’m looking forward to it then. When?”
“Let’s meet at 8 at my house … [Click Here to Read Post] »

Quick post.

So as promised, I said that I would post as soon as I closed with this girl.  Man, what an incredible body…  really amazing in bed too.  This is what it is about - I saw her in the club, spit some game, got her chasing and the game is on.

Gotta love this…

Edge here.

Man, this week was bananas! Crazy week.

So Sunday I had a great time with a very lovely girl. Legend was having a little shindig with his buds and a bunch of girls. Chilled, played some strip poker and just hung out. Gotta love the strip poker - made me feel like I was in middle school again, but nothing wrong with that.

I was laid back and bantered a bit with the girls. There was a feisty one in there who was giving me all sorts of shit at the beginning, but she came around in the end. I just maintained the frame throughout my entire time there that I was the prize and that all of the girls were trying to win me over. The result was that it became reality and ended up taking the feisty girl home with me.

Monday I had no sleep and was off my … [Click Here to Read Post] »

This girl added me on Myspace… this definitely doesn’t happen often, but when it does I’m convinced that it means the girl already has made up her mind that she wants me. Maybe that’s a little cocky on my part, but I think it’s a good idea to think that way in the realm of picking up women. If I think the girl is attractive and she friend requests me, I look at it as a guarantee that she and I are going to hook up.

Anyway, internet game isn’t what I am looking to build up my skills in, but I think it’s worth mentioning all wins here. I look at internet pulls as a sort of a “bonus round”.

For the sake of sharing, here was the timeline (for the most part.) This is the format I follow for all the internet pulls I’ve ever done (although sometimes I initiate the “friend request, conversation, etc.”)

She friend requests me. No message, … [Click Here to Read Post] »