Knowing how to talk dirty to a girl is definitely a skill you want to have.
There was a time, years ago where I was dating this tall brunette girl who I was way more into than she was into me. But we were dating and I was happy to have her at the time.
We were hanging out and I was casually talking about something sexual when she said, “OK, you’re really getting me turned on.”
So I was thinking, “Awesome… I’m going to talk dirty to this girl, she’ll get turned on and we’ll hook up.” My mind is racing… remembering bits and pieces… fragments of dirty talk or dirty things I’ve heard in the past.
And then I made an attempt that [Click to Continue Reading…]
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Legend, Amp and I had a conversation the other night about leading conversations and avoiding conversational pitfalls.
First, let me explain what I mean when I refer to leading the conversation. I, for one, am not a proponent of shoving routines down a woman’s throat just to keep the interaction going. There’s a place for pick-up artist technique, but I think it’s far better to be great conversationalist that uses technique as needed.
As a metaphor, I think of all of the pick-up artist tips and seduction techniques in the way that I think of spices in cooking: a little bit in the right thing is the difference between bland/boring and unforgettable/delicious. BUT too much spice ruins the meal altogether.
So let’s talk about conversations. The average guy is usually excited just to be in a conversation with a beautiful woman, let alone do anything to remotely turn her on.
As a result, a guy gets up the gall to talk to the woman, the conversation opens and then for the rest of the interaction, [Click to Continue Reading…]