BadBoy – Closing

Seduction has a several uncomfortable moments, and the more you are capable to make those moments natural and comfortable for yourself and for girl, the more successful you will be in the end. One of those moments happens on very beginning and its: opening. Starting conversation with an unknown person. The more you are relaxed and confident into what you are doing, the more person, in this case girl or group of girls will be relaxed and happy to talk with you. There are several moments in process of seduction when you will feel that uncomfortable pressure. Be aware that if you feel that uncomfortable emotion, you can be sure she does it as well even more intensive. It all comes down to your skill of making it as smooth as possible.

The secret of best Playboys on this world is they make them feel comfortable and natural doing wild thing they would never do with any other guys.

One of crucial moments, where you will feel the biggest pressure is Closing the deal. Either getting her contact info, or going for a kiss, or taking her some and going for sex. That’s where lots of guys fail a lot, because they are not smooth enough.

Important rule to remember is that you have to keep that uncomfortable emotion inside her comfort zone. If the action you are doing is too much for her, and outside her comfort zone, she won’t be ok with doing it, and you won’t achieve anything. You will very easily be able to read how she feels through her negative body language. It doesn’t mean you failed, or you cannot do it, its just you have to find other way that will get you there by not stepping outside her comfort zone.

You should be always trying to find most comfortable way for her to give you number, to kiss you, or to take her panties off.

Kiss closes

This is one of crucial moments that you cannot miss. How many times you been on a date and everything was going perfect, and then was this time where you had to kiss her,  felt it’s a time, but you were not sure, you waited, hesitated and then opportunity went away and you never got 2^nd chance to kiss her. How many times that happened to you? How many times you were going home angry on yourself because you hesitated and let perfect opportunity fly away? How many girls you lost because of it?

This is one more of those moments in seduction where girl won’t do much to help you; she will be sitting there, enjoying her feeling being around you, and waiting from you to kiss her. It’s like they expect from you to read her thoughts and align your actions according to her. And that’s exactly what you have to do if you want to be good with girls. If you dedicated yourself to this game, and decide to become a good player, you will get to point where you will feel what they do feel; you will start to think as they do.

Actually, recognizing the moment when she wants to be kissed its much easier then you could ever imagined, you can actually feel it. The moment on date, when something triggers your thought to kiss her, and you start thinking should you kiss her or not that is the moment to kiss her.

Trust your instincts; they are way more experienced in seduction then your logic

When a girl starts feeling she wants to be kissed, her body language will change, she will start sending those emotions towards you, your unconscious will notice it, and inform you that you should do something about it, In that moment, you will start thinking “should I kiss her”.

Once that happens you have Max 1 minute to do kiss her before window of opportunity closes. You will have to wait and work a lot for next window of opportunity.
Now, here is funny part,  even she’s dying to kiss you, if you just do it out of blue, without calibration or smoothness, it wont work, she will turn away. So once you realize she wants to be kissed, It’s a smart to isolate

Her away from her friends, or anything that can make her uncomfortable. If you are in club, the moment you notice kiss in ON, isolate her smoothly away from her friends to bar for example, talk for minute or 2 and then say:

“You know what”….. (Pause) (Look into her eyes for 2 sec, then look and focus on her lips)” I am resisting myself not to kiss you right now” Keep looking at her lips for half of second, and go for kiss. This is moment, where slightest hesitation will ruin everything.. The more relaxed and smooth you are (comes with practice) the better it will work. If done smooth it will work in 80% of cases. 20% of them even they want to be kissed they will resist, just not to give herself easily.

Try to kiss her 2-3 times before you give up

If a girl moves away on your attempt to kiss her, but stays there and continue talking with you, its obvious sign she wants to be kissed. If se doesn’t want, she wouldn’t stay there. Would she? With moving away from your lips, she is actually saying, “yes, but not now”
So wait 5-10 minutes and try again.

Each time you try to kiss her you should use different kiss technique, and move her to other place. If you were sitting once and it didn’t worked, move her to dance floor, and try again.

Persistence gets you the girl

Some girls have belief, that guy has to work to get them, and will reject you several times with only one purpose to see how much do you really want her. So guys who are persistent, their brain decodes as a “He really cares about me and wants me”. Go figure

Getting a kiss is all about creating a moment where she wants to be kissed. So you have 2 options, waiting till that moment comes, or forcing and creating the moment by yourself. By looking at her lips while talking with her instead looking at her eyes, she will start feeling and thinking that she wants to be kissed. So 5 minutes before you go for the Kiss, spend more and more time looking at her lips.

Kiss technique 2

If you could rate yourself as a kisser on a scale on 1-10, how would you rate yourself? Whatever she answers, say ” Lets see”, and go in and kiss her.
There is only one visual indicator of interest, that is signalling she wants to be kissed, it’s her looking at your lips while she is talking to you.

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