Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 29 B
Last Minute Resistance
How to deal with LMR
There are three ways that I deal with LMR.
1. Two steps forward and one step back. If I am getting heavy resistance when I am escalating I go into a two steps forward one step back mode. If you take a look at the Kino escalation ladder in the Kino chapter you can just simply follow a two step forward one back. Linger on the step you went back to then try to push forward again. Repeat until you get to where you want to go. It works.
2. The Freeze out. This is more of an extreme tactic. It works and I have done it but it is a last ditch effort and if you don’t do it correctly she will smell the reactive nature of it. Basically if you have hit a brick wall when escalating you completely stop and start doing something else.
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Chasing State:
While I think it’s great to be in state while your out, being in state is probably the least important thing in pickup because you absolutely don’t need it to accomplish anything. State is nothing more than a tool for you to use. Furthermore, by worrying about being in state or waiting for it to happen, you’re shooting yourself in the foot instead of just getting on with having fun. Waiting to be in state is counterproductive and will actually throw you into a vicious cycle of negative feelings. Forget about “trying” to be in state. Go out and have fun.
2 Kinds of State: Validation Based State and Pure State Along with chasing state you want to avoid validation based state. There are so many guys out there who use attention from girls as fuel for “being in state”. When they get IOI’s from girls they emotionally react to them, taking their feelings of being happy and channeling that into a state they normally aren’t in. Doing this on a consistent basis is actually using validation in a way that hurts them in the long run and will cause them to be state dependent and “addicted” to “state. In other words, they are taking energy from an external source and using it to motivate them. Breaking free from being addicted to Validation Based State is not easy because the person has to completely retrain themselves.
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