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Part 29  B

Last Minute Resistance

How to deal with LMR

There are three ways that I deal with LMR.

1. Two steps forward and one step back.  If I am getting heavy resistance when I am escalating I go into a two steps forward one step back mode.  If you take a look at the Kino escalation ladder in the Kino chapter you can just simply follow a two step forward one back.  Linger on the step you went back to then try to push forward again.  Repeat until you get to where you want to go.  It works.

2. The Freeze out. This is more of an extreme tactic.  It works and I have done it but it is a last ditch effort and if you don’t do it correctly she will smell the reactive nature of it.  Basically if you have hit a brick wall when escalating you completely stop and start doing something else.

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Chasing State:

While I think it’s great to be in state while your out, being in state is probably the least important thing in pickup because you absolutely don’t need it to accomplish anything. State is nothing more than a tool for you to use. Furthermore, by worrying about being in state or waiting for it to happen, you’re shooting yourself in the foot instead of just getting on with having fun. Waiting to be in state is counterproductive and will actually throw you into a vicious cycle of negative feelings. Forget about “trying” to be in state. Go out and have fun.

2 Kinds of State: Validation Based State and Pure State Along with chasing state you want to avoid validation based state. There are so many guys out there who use attention from girls as fuel for “being in state”. When they get IOI’s from girls they emotionally react to them, taking their feelings of being happy and channeling that into a state they normally aren’t in. Doing this on a consistent basis is actually using validation in a way that hurts them in the long run and will cause them to be state dependent and “addicted” to “state. In other words, they are taking energy from an external source and using it to motivate them. Breaking free from being addicted to Validation Based State is not easy because the person has to completely retrain themselves.

On the other end of the scale, Pure State is when you’re happy being Read the rest of this entry »

Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution

Part 29 Part A

Last Minute Resistance

What is LMR

I couldn’t write a Pick-up Guide without talking about LMR.  Notice that NO means no and when in doubt stop.  But I also want to say that sometimes No means not yet.   In person there is a huge difference and it’s really easy to tell.  If she is moaning and saying I barely know you or it’s too soon and she is stopping you but saying it passively.  Then that means not yet.   But if she is serious and says no that means no.

How to avoid LMR

Over my years of getting better and better with the opposite sex I find that I don’t really like dealing with LMR and instead I want to completely avoid it by doing two things.  Sure with the right attitude you can plow through it and sometimes you need too but I think it’s much better to avoid last minute resistance.  I avoid it by doing two things.

1.  Comfort. The longer you spend with a girl the more comfortable she is with you.  The more places and situations you are in with her the more comfortable she will be with you.  Despite what the community says I believe you can be friends with a girl for a long time and still escalate it to sex provided you are an attractive male to begin with.  Sure it’s nice to get there quickly but in my experience if you consistently maintain attraction either automatically or consciously then you can escalate it to sex after months of hanging out with her.  Don’t get me wrong I am not saying wait when you can have sex but I am saying it’s not necessarily a race to get there.

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Opening Other People – Introvert Mode You should be aware of which mode the person is in because it helps you gauge the potential difficulty of opening the set. For instance, if you want to open a girl walking down the street but she’s in Introvert Mode, your opening line or immediate follow up statement (your transition) has to be powerful enough to hook her into conversation with you. If it isn’t, she’ll stay in Introvert Mode. Do take into account the fact that there will always be other things that factor into whether you’ll be able to hook her or not, such as; is she on the phone, is she late; those kind of things. If you succeed you bring her into Extrovert Mode and you’ll be able to communicate with her easily.

Opening Other People – Extrovert Mode When people are out being social, they are in extrovert mode. They are generally easier to open for the simple fact that they are already out of Introvert Mode. You still have to hook the set with interesting discussion though, or you are perceived as not being high value.

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Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution

Part 28

Pulling women from the club and bar, Bouncing, and Venue changing.

Bouncing girls from the club and venue changing really comes down to three basic things:

1. You need enough attraction and comfort built with her so she is comfortable being with you.  It’s much easier to pull a grill from one club to another bar with all her friends then to separate her.  You need more comfort, attraction, and timing to pull her away from her friends.

2. Over hype where ever you are going. No one wants to go to this place that is just okay.  Hype any aspect of the venue from its chars to it drinks.  This goes for your apartment too.  Talk about the cool stuff that you want to show her.  Very simple.

3. Most importantly pulling and venue changing comes down to asking.  If you don’t ask the girl if she wants to bounce it’s never going to happen.  Take action and ask.  The more you do it the more you will realize when it is the right time to ask.  It comes naturally through practice.

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Theory for Getting Into State: From Introvert to Extrovert

There are a few concepts that I want to discuss that I haven’t heard talked about before. Hopefully this is original and not entirely heard before, though some of it will be.

2 Kinds of State: Introvert and Extrovert When people are alone they are in Introvert Mode, they are thinking in their heads and in their own universe. When people are with another person or other people, most often they are in Extrovert Mode and are sharing ideas or communicating feelings. We are naturally in some stage of either Introvert or Extrovert at any given time, and we naturally shift from one mode to the other without thinking about it or making any kind of effort. But there are some people out there who have a hard time talking to other people, or, going from Introvert Mode to Extrovert Mode. I’m going to discuss 2 different views. First will be about ourselves and second will be about other people. Let’s begin.

You – From Introvert to Extrovert Most of us are alone before we go out, so what we need to do is go from introvert to extrovert Read the rest of this entry »