Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 19: Qualification
What is qualification?
Qualification is a mechanism that will allow you to do two things. The first is that it will verbally set up a screening frame where you can show that you have standards that you want a girl to live up to. This will begin to create a frame where you are challenging the girl and she has to live up to your expectations. It will build investment and compliance through screening questions.
The second use of qualification is to test for compliance. Using screening questions you can easily see how invested a girl is in you by how much she will comply with your qualification. If you qualify a girl on something simple like ‘can you cook’ and she doesn’t have enough attraction to answer you then you know you need to run more attraction. If you try to move her or try to qualify her on what her passions and she wont answer you know your not in a rapport stage yet and you need more attraction. If you try to sexually qualify her and she won’t comply you know you need more comfort and rapport before she will comply to your sexual screening. If she is complying to your sexual screening then you know you can move directly to a close.
Using qualification to figure out how much compliance you have is the best way to quickly move forward in the set.
Using qualification
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Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution
Part 18: Framing and Frames
What are frames
Definition:
Framing is the basis to every aspect of your game. Framing is basically having the right attitude or perspective while interacting with women, which is very important. It is how you view the interaction and it is the underlying context to the interaction. One of our strategies is going to be intentionally choosing the most strategic viewpoint and attitude to use at different stages of the interaction.
In any communication, there are all communications, facial expressions and body language that is neutral. Sometimes these things do have a motive or intention and that motive or intention might be clear or ambiguous. Our minds have an urge to give meaning to everything. Frames are powerful because they are the lens you look through to determine the meaning of an these elements of an interaction. Frames tend to become self-fulfilling prophecies.
For example, someone who believes he is well-liked may interpret a rude comment toward him as if it were a joke and laugh about it. His response is likeable and his belief that he is well liked becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy – he looks through the belief that people like him and so he responds in a likeable way.
Another person who believes he is disliked by everyone may interpret that same rude comment as a cutting personal attack and fly into a fit of rage. His response repels people and it too completes the self-fulfilling prophecy.
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