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Part 19: Qualification

What is qualification?

Qualification is a mechanism that will allow you to do two things.  The first is that it will verbally set up a screening frame where you can show that you have standards that you want a girl to live up to.  This will begin to create a frame where you are challenging the girl and she has to live up to your expectations.  It will build investment and compliance through screening questions.

The second use of qualification is to test for compliance.  Using screening questions you can easily see how invested a girl is in you by how much she will comply with your qualification.  If you qualify a girl on something simple like ‘can you cook’ and she doesn’t have enough attraction to answer you then you know you need to run more attraction.   If you try to move her or try to qualify her on what her passions and she wont answer you know your not in a rapport stage yet and you need more attraction.  If you try to sexually qualify her and she won’t comply you know you need more comfort and rapport before she will comply to your sexual screening.  If she is complying to your sexual screening then you know you can move directly to a close.

Using qualification to figure out how much compliance you have is the best way to quickly move forward in the set.

Using qualification

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Part 18: Framing and Frames

What are frames

Definition:

Framing is the basis to every aspect of your game.  Framing is basically having the right attitude or perspective while interacting with women, which is very important. It is how you view the interaction and it is the underlying context to the interaction.  One of our strategies is going to be intentionally choosing the most strategic viewpoint and attitude to use at different stages of the interaction.

In any communication, there are all communications, facial expressions and body language that is neutral.  Sometimes these things do have a motive or intention and that motive or intention might be clear or ambiguous.  Our minds have an urge to give meaning to everything.  Frames are powerful because they are the lens you look through to determine the meaning of an these elements of an interaction.  Frames tend to become self-fulfilling prophecies.

For example, someone who believes he is well-liked may interpret a rude comment toward him as if it were a joke and laugh about it.  His response is likeable and his belief that he is well liked becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy – he looks through the belief that people like him and so he responds in a likeable way.

Another person who believes he is disliked by everyone may interpret that same rude comment as a cutting personal attack and fly into a fit of rage.  His response repels people and it too completes the self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution

Part 17:  Sticking Points

What are sticking points:

A sticking point is going to be any part of your game that repeatedly seems to not be working.  A lot of people just starting in game have a sticking point where they can’t open.  Then they move on to the sticking point of transitioning or contact closing.

Sticking points can appear in many different places in your game.  Plateaus in game are also a common occurrence.  I see that many people in the community hit a certain skill level and then they stop developing.  This could be known as a plateau in game.  I think that plateaus and sticking points are basically the same.  They have similar symptoms in that you are not improving and getting better results.   I think that the same tactics that help avoid sticking points and removing sticking points works exactly the same with plateaus.

Dealing with Sticking points:

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Part 16: Taking a Look at Where You Are

What you should be able to accomplish with what you’ve learned

Within the first 15 articles I believe that you have enough information if you consistently practice it you can get a lot of girls. You may not get the really super hot ones without more advanced (not Dance.. Only dance if you want to haha) techniques but if you’re looking for a girlfriend or your going to be overwhelmed by tons of techniques focus on the first 15 parts until you get good at it.   I believe we all need a foundational social skill set before we can use the more advanced techniques.  I’ve given you everything you need to get a girlfriend so far. Once you’re comfortable with starting conversations with strangers and connecting with them and getting her number then you are halfway there.  We talked about dealing with the phone and dealing with dates. Once you get that down, you throw in escalation and you are all set.  The following articles are going to really focus in on specific skills which will really sky rocket your results but you need a basic skill first.  Being able to have a conversation with someone at a good basic level if not better before you can implement the advanced tactics.  I like to keep things simple because if you try to do too much at Read the rest of this entry »

I’ve been a little slow with updates lately. I’ve been having a crazy last couple of weeks putting the final touches on our first book which is going to be a 31 chapter step by step guide to getting game. I am really excited about it as we here a PUE put you the best content that will get you results with out over complicating thing. I always have found simple is better.

My little brother just graduated high school so there has been a lot of family time visiting and grilling. Anyway get on the list becuase we will be giving away the book for free to our loyal readers once its finalized.

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Becoming a Pickup Artist – A Core-Skills Guide to Game by Pick-Up Evolution

Part 15: IOI’s and IOD’s

Legend:

What are Indicators of Interest

In the community there are a number of indicators of interest.  These are specific things that some pick-up artists believe are cues that the girl is into you. I will list them here:

Smiling at you

Preening (tossing, twirling or combing her hair)

Scratching the top of her hand

Exposing her neck

Positioning body facing towards you

Laughing at what you’re saying

Touching you

Sucking your dick

Assuming its always on and why you shouldn’t bother paying attention to them

I believe that is a waste of time and that you shouldn’t bother looking indicators of interest. There is only one indicator of interest that I think about. This is if the girl is talking to me then it is on. She’s not walking way and she’s talking to me, it is because she wants me Read the rest of this entry »